William Wayne Cox  11/2/87-11/10/03

William Wayne Cox 11/2/87-11/10/03
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'CELEBRATE WAYNE'

May 15, 2004 was the 6th month anniversary of Wayne's funeral. Family and friends gathered at the cemetary to 'CELEBRATE WAYNE' by sharing stories, memories, thoughts, prayers and releasing balloons with messages or memories written on each one. The image on the right is the invitation that was sent out to announce 'CELEBRATE WAYNE'. The rainbow stationary is for the rainbow seen for 100's of miles on the day of his funeral. (Story on the Wayne's Rainbows & Signs page)

'STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN'

Ever since Wayne's death, I have a difficult time listening to music because of the memories it evokes.  Usually I listen to talk radio.  About 10 minutes away from the cemetary for our CELEBRATE  Wayne gathering,  I switched over to a classical rock station and Led Zeppelin's STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN was playing.  I felt as if this song was from Wayne at that moment.  So I chose it as the background music for this page. 

 

 

 


In Memory Of Wayne Cards

Each balloon had a laminated card attached to the ribbon explaining it was released in Wayne's memory. On the back of each card was an address for the balloons to be returned, if found. The cards were made from the same staionary as the invitaion shown above...blue/white clouds and rainbows We started with 16 balloons (One for every year of Wayne's life) and had enough people to release almost all 50 of the balloons. The extra balloons had card attached too. It was a beautiful, sunny day..with just enough wind to really blow the balloons across the sky. We even lost 6-7 due to wind gusts, before we started. It was an amazing , wonderful yet bittersweet sight to watch the balloons until they were out of sight. Wayne would have enjoyed it.

Friends from High School - left to right: Lindsay Strickland, April Moore, Randi Mccrary, Jenna Michelson, Kayla Lipford, Monique Hardison. Bottom: Miles Humphry and Ashley Mooring.


Writing Messages & Memories on Balloons


A Moment of Prayer Before Releasing Balloons


"1 - 2 - 3 - LIFT OFF"


UP, UP, AND AWAY


GOOD-BYE.....WE LOVE YOU WAYNE


BALLOONS RELEASED LATER THAT DAY AT HOME BY LAUREN (WAYNE'S LITTLE SISTER)


SIX MONTHS....Poem read at 'CELEBRATE WAYNE'

Six Months

Exactly six months ago today

We gathered here in a very different way

Our hearts were broken and the pain was raw

As we questioned your final act of all

 

Our focus today is not just missing you

But celebrating your life in your years too few

Our thoughts on memories of love and fun

And remembering things with you we had done

 

We’ll speak our memories and maybe a prayer

As we come together with your life to share

Balloons with messages released to float up high

We’ll watch them disappear into the blue sky

 

Sending our messages in the sky above

Family and friends are here with love

Forever we are with you in our hearts

Even though physically we are apart

 

Our memories may take us to more pleasant places

Dislodging the pain of the heart-broken spaces

Today as we are here to remember you

Together with love and friendship as we do

 

Sixteen years in our lives and hearts do we cherish

May the good times not be forgotten or perish

The heartbreak is overwhelming at times

But if we look we can see the signs

 

From rainbows, to butterflies and shooting stars

Your love is being recognized from afar

One day we’ll be with you once again

But for now our we are with your family and friends

 

We are here today to celebrate the life of Wayne

And to share the treasures that we gained

Remembering him as a special person in our lives

We’ll never need to say a final good-bye

 

We love you Wayne.

 

EA Gay

May 11, 2004

 1:04am


Poem...

Stories shared, memories found,

tears flowing freely all around

 

friends and family in one place

all remembering one special face

 

blue, red, yellow , green balloons in the sky

floating as we release them free to fly

 

memories lovingly written on each one

gusting winds pushing them into the sun

 

fluffy white clouds in the sky of blue

creating memories in our minds that will be new

 

balloons floating free

tears falling, hearts beating, release of grief

 

specks of color almost out of sight

eyes straining for the last glimpse of flight

 

hugs given, tears wiped away

smiles push forth, laughter is heard today

 

Wayne is with us, memories all around

Being remembered in the good that we found

 

 

EA Gay

May 15, 2004

2:15am

 

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